[pnpgm] Can I expect to be treated fairly here?
Wout Broere
broere at powersandperils.org
Mon Sep 17 19:52:23 CEST 2018
Short answer:
Yes, as far as I am concerned.
Longer answer, collected ramblings from my side:
Social norms differ from country to country, as well as between
different groups. Direct or even literal forms of communication that are
not accepted by groups/people that pride themselves on being social
interactors, are completely acceptable to others. I studied engineering
and physics (and now teach at a technical university) in a field where
many students and staff are considered socially inept.
A colleague of mine was considered too direct and blunt by many of our
close colleagues, but I loved working with him, as he meant what he
said. You could count on his word, and if he didn't like something there
was no mistaking his meaning. A few years ago he moved from the
Netherlands to Sweden. After a few months he was criticized for being
too polite and not direct enough.
So, social norms on what is acceptable communication differ much more
than we often believe.
And I like direct communication, much more than the obtuse language of
the socially skilled.
Post as you like, and expect the same in return.
PS: Of course, I happen to live in a country where 'using politically
correct languag' is not the issue it seems to be in the USA.
On 17-09-18 17:35, Hsingai Altaica wrote:
> In case it wasn't clear from my last post I'm asking if you guys are
> willing to treat me fairly.
> --- It is with books as with the fire in our hearths; we go to a
> neighbor to get the embers and light it when we return home, pass it on
> to others, and it belongs to everyone.
>
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